Well, when you purchase in Singapore you have already paid for the shipping! Regarding weight: shipping is more a function of the volume than the weight, except for heavy things. Telescopes are mostly little bits of glass and some metal tubing enclosing mostly air so you'll find the volumetric weight far exceeds the actual weight. Case in point: My VMC200L weighs 12 lbs but its chargable weight for shipping, due to the volume, came up to 35lbs.
Still, when you add shipping to the new price of items inthe US, you'll find that its still cheaper to purchase online. As I said before, the one caveat is that you don't have any support or warranty so if you have a broken product, you'll need to pay extra 2x shipping - return then the new item back to you again. The return is usually even more expensive!
I agree with Shirox: I think of all the local dealers, astrobargains is the cheapest and Joo Beng will help you if there are any problems.
A refractor is easier use because it does not require collimation and a poor image is unlikely to be due to the telescope itself, if you have already verified it is of good quality. Also, because most beginner refractors tend to be smaller (80-100mm), cooldown is almost negligible in our climate. On the other hand, with a reflector you have to worry about collimation in addition to atmospheric effects on what you finally see in the eyepiece and as the size increases, some cooling time is required, even in Singapore (although admittedly, not much. My 8" VMC200L is isothermal by the time I finally finish setting up my SXD mount. Then again, maybe that's cos' I'm slow at setting up :p)
The benefit of a reflector is its size. You can get a lot more aperture for the money you'll pay as compared to refractors. A large telescope will magnify more light, making dimmer objects better seen or giving you more leeway to use filters to bring out nebulosity - an almost necessity in Singapore if you want to see any nebula at all (except the very brightest - M42 and M8, but those are mostly smudges in an 8" without filters)
However, size does come with drawbacks - larger scope are heavier and more demanding to set up so they tend to get used less often. I find even with an excellent reflector, I now mostly use my 80mm achromat finderscope simply because you can't beat a 10min setup/take down time with a laptop beside you guide

So consider your situation: Do you think you want to make a life-long investment or just dip your toes? the latter, then I suggest a 80 refractor or a 4" class reflector on a suitably stable mount, cheap and portable, with a 2-3 generic plossl eyepieces.
If you're looking to make a serious hobby, then consider your mobility. If you have the privilege of open skies from your home, consider a larger reflector on an EQ mount (if photography is an interest), or a larger dobsonian (if visuals only is your interest). If you need go out to set up, then seriously consider its size and weight before making any purchase, together with the availability of transport (car or no).
As an idea, I find that my 8" Cat, SXD mount, Bag with eyepieces, battery, mount controller, misc photography items and 80mm finderscope will take most of the boot of my car (a standard sedan, some space taken for the usual emergency items) and takes me 2 trips from home to place in car for a total time of close to 1 hr to drive 5 mins to a nearby field and set up before I'm ready to view (not photograph yet!)
Hope it helps
